Premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation describes the condition where a man ejaculates too quickly (sometimes even before any direct sexual stimulation). Sometimes just thinking about a situation can cause premature sexual stimulation, sometimes it took place shortly after penetration (the most frequent).

Premature ejaculation is probably the most common sexual problem affecting men. Most men may experience a premature ejaculation at some point, but the problem occurs when the situation is repeated in most sexual situations.

Premature ejaculation can occur at any age and in any circumstance, is still more common in young people, in a very close relationship with the new sexual experience (new partner, different situation, etc.).

Early studies showed that sexual experiences sexuality at very young ages have a great importance in the shaping of habits ejaculation. Thus unsuitable places and circumstances, often encountered in sexual activity of young (back seat of the car), fear of being caught, initial nervousness and haste but one-night stands would play an important role in building a pattern of rapid ejaculation (premature) or premature ejaculation.

Sure there are medical conditions that can interfere with ejaculation (diabetes, prostate pains, atherosclerosis), but in most cases premature ejaculation is psychologically conditioned, especially in the context of relationship dysfunction (demanding partners sexually, lack of communication, distrust, unrealistic expectations, adventures, excessive desire to please a partner, etc.). Any derogatory remarks made at that time will worsen the situation further.
Premature ejaculation
The first step to solving a problem is open discussion with your partner (s important to know what the needs and wishes).

Premature ejaculation can be overcome, in the case of many men, self-help methods (technical stop / start), but some may need professional help (sexologist). There is another drug approved for treatment of premature ejaculation.

Ejaculation delay sprays are actually anesthetics that reduce sensitivity to the glans, but can interfere with ejaculation recognition. At the same time, they can cause a decrease in vaginal sensitivity partner (transfer of anesthetic partner body) thus reducing the sensation of pleasure. It is therefore recommended to use a condom if such a spray is used. There is clear evidence to prove that they work, but do not work.
Premature ejaculation
Traditional sex therapy is only able to solve the problem of premature ejaculation (even if the medication could become an optional form of therapy), although the vast majority of couples considered to be extremely difficult to flaunt such a problem to a specialist.